Ways of Solving the Mysteries of Life

As a continuation of the previous post let's discuss about the important things involved in Life!!!

In my last episode I started by saying that Life is complicated, but some had a question that how can we say our life is complicated or not. I thought for a second because I was not able to answer it immediately, after a few moments of thinking I got a convincing answer for myself. I will explain the same here now.

Now a days almost everyone are being educated to a certain level according to their ability. So most of us would have come across the difficult yet interesting(for few of us) subject in education known as Mathematics. There are both easy and complicated problems involved in this subject. But how do you decide a problem is difficult or not - By looking at the equations and/or numbers involved in it. Similarly, a person's life can be determined as complicated or not by looking at the people whom he/she deals with on a daily basis.

Why I say this here is because people whom we live with in our day to day life play an important role in determining our Life's path. If you are lucky you may have good supporting and understanding family members, a bunch of lovely colleagues who are not interested in playing dirty office politics against you and finally a group of caring friends who make you forget all your tensions and miseries. But most of us are not so lucky, else you will not have the experience of facing any problems or mistakes in your life since all these people will help you to face/solve it which may be happy at that particular moment but it will have very bad effects in your future.

You may ask how my problems are linked to my friends or family members?! Though they are your loved ones there is no guarantee that they will be with you throughout your life. Either they leave willingly or unknowingly. The former happens when you both have a difference in opinion or someone who is jealous about this relationship creates one such big difference of opinion but the latter happens when they die, which is not in our hands. Similarly they will be associated with your problems in both ways.

Just take a reverse gear in your Life and run your memories of your most irritating or negative moments which took place in your life. If you look at it carefully there might be a person who will be the reason behind it and in most cases even without their knowledge. I say this because I believe that the root cause of a problem does not occurs naturally instead it is the result of a event which might have taken place someone else's life. But I am not mentioning this here to accuse them and as I already said they might not even be aware that they were the reason behind our problem.

So coming to the topic, our Life gets complicated due to the problems which we face and the reason behind these problems are the fellow people who live alongside. To overcome this you must understand the root cause behind it. To make this process much simpler consider these problems as quests and make yourself completely involved in it without any mental distractions and as result you will complete the quest which in turn gives a solution to your Life's problem. After this accomplishment you will have a sense of success which makes you forget all the hardships you faced while conquering it. This can be used to solve your future quests as well(they will keep repeating, even stronger than the previous one). These little moments of happiness which you must cherish will help you one day to overcome other complicated problems in future.

I insist everyone to cherish and remember all these small small happiness and joyful moments in life because we live in a competitive world where others may not take time to realize what your accomplishment is and hence will not appreciate you or motivate you also until you stop expecting others to appreciate you will find it harder to complete these tasks or Life problems because you wish for a outside source of motivation while you have the most powerful source of motivation kept in mute within yourself.

Hence I request you all to spend some time for yourselves to read yourself, to understand your capabilities, to cultivate the courage to overcome day to day problems, to motivate yourselves in order to maintain speed in the Life's biggest race, to teach yourselves on how to handle a problem in a smooth way etc., This will help you to reach the destination which you desire to. This will help you live your life. This will give you happiness. Last but not the least this will help you bring out the good Human Being inside everyone of us. I wish you all to  have a Successful life ahead.

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I will be back with my new posts soon!!!!!!!!!!!!